You need: A hairbrush, riding crop, or just his hands.
You'll be surprised by how much slowing down changes things. Then proceed to ravish him — slowly, recklessly, teasingly — however you feel like doing it. Either one is a powerful aphrodisiac (maybe you've heard of You need: Four neckties, or more elaborate restraints available at sex-toy stores or online; a bed, preferably one with bedposts.
You get really creative and You need: A scarf, necktie, or a blindfold. How to play: He ties your wrists and ankles to the bedposts and has his way with you.
What You Need: A hat (or small jar or bowl), small pieces of paper, and a pen How to Play: Each of you will write down fantasies you have yet to share with your partner, be it having sex in a certain part of the house or trying out a new position.
Put the slips of paper into the hat, then take turns unfolding them, one by one.
It's scary at first, but if he's gentle you will not get nicked. Why: Even though guys know what they see in porn isn't realistic, you'd be amazed at what a little one-time novelty can do for your sex life.
Note: Later, use baby lotion or another gentle cream to soothe the freshly shaved skin. RELATED: 11 Men Reveal What They *Really* Think About Women Not Shaving You need: A car and a parking spot where you won't be interrupted, like your driveway and your garage late at night. Give a step-by-step lesson on how to use hands, lips and other body parts to stimulate the teacher.
Why: Cadell believes that creating these new memories with sex games will make you associate fun times in your marriage with intercourse. How to play: Have your dude either lie back or kneel with his eyes closed and mouth open.Be careful when shaving parts you cannot see (this is what mirrors are for).Also, once you've shaved, decorating yourself with the edible treat of his choice — whipped cream, warmed fudge sauce, frozen orange-juice concentrate — can be fun. The other is going to teach him or her how it's all done.This is an excellent time to try inserting a vibrator. Variation: If you have a favorite secluded spot, this is fun to do outdoors, even on your own patio.You need: A big towel or blanket and a bottle of massage oil or cream. Why: You will really be surprised at the difference a little lubricant makes in the feeling of skin on skin. Tip: Don't put mint or eucalyptus oil on sensitive genital areas.You can get extra-long ties and be tied to the legs of the bed.