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and to be a sucker for hanging around when you’re merely (and clearly) his “once a week” girl.
What DID surprise me is that, after the initial chemistry rush, Janie settled into a low-intensity pseudo-relationship that didn’t leave her at all satisfied. If he doesn’t follow through fast enough or often enough, make a mental note: “Hmm… I may have casually seen my wife for the first 4 weeks of our relationship, but I would always email the next day to say I had fun.
Which is why I wasn’t at all surprised when she met a man only two weeks into our coaching sessions. Application of this made-up “rule” is surprisingly simple. He calls, he texts, he emails – you just “mirror” his efforts and give him enthusiasm and warmth every time.
You don’t win this war by waiting him out and hoping he falls for you after four months or six months or one year of casual sex.
No hard feelings, but I’m going to go find that guy.
I’ve been dating a guy online for a month, and he brought up the idea of being exclusive, to which I agreed.
Bear with me, I promise that I’m going somewhere with this. A long time ago, I had a girlfriend who I started dating “accidentally” I guess you could say.I met her at a time in my life when I really wasn’t looking to date anyone.
I know in your e Book “Why He Disappeared” you talk about mirroring his actions–ifhe calls, answer; if he sets up a date, say yes—so if he keeps his profile up, I should keep mine up too?I don’t want to sound heartless, but I started to lose my attraction to him.Breaking up is never clean, but there are definitely good and bad ways to do it. In the same way that I caution women against being needy, the type of behavior you are describing here is the male equivalent (the paranoia, accusations, need for reassurance that you like him, etc.) I’m going to tell you a story.Still, I had this overpowering feeling that if I didn’t keep the relationship together that it somehow meant I was a failure.I began getting wrapped up in my own fears, worries and what it meant about me.Why is a man not clamoring to reserve his weekends for you, or take you on a short vacation, or meet your friends and family? I need a man who is looking for a relationship and you don’t seem to be that guy.