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Dating on the chive

They also still seem to find the "Keep Calm" meme clever and original.

If its disrespectful and you've sat him down and had a face to face about, and he's still doing it-that would be a problem. He can look as long as there's no touching-ok in my book.

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Outside of all of this he seems really happy with me and I don't feel like there is anything I do to make him not satisfied or unhappy. im almost in my late 20s, i got married in my early twenties.

We have a great relationship but I don't understand this behavior and am worried that it will lead to him straying eventually. Edit: He's 30I don't think it suits you to be worried in my opinion this is to be expected since he's male and guys tend to have a high sex drive and are visual so they tend to have something called the 'male gaze' which is an innate view of gals as sexual objects or body parts. at first my husband used to look at magazines like playboy etc. taking him away from family activities sometimes with our twin girls. i do alot of work in in my house, between my kids , my pets , him and lastly myself.. my husand had the nerve to tell me on mothers day that he needs to have sex everyday several times a day.

I brought it up to him once stating that from the outside it looks like he's "shopping" and makes me feel unwanted.

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and then those pictures dont do it for him anymore.. but after a while porn doesnt do as much as he would like.he was so against strip clubs back in the day, and then that nite while talking i said to him, so what is it now, strip clubs, lap dances hookers?

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I understand that he is a man and he probably doesn't even realize he does it or that I notice.Seems like he doesn't care that it bothers you and that could be a problem.He's 30 and isn't really immature (minus this fact).It bugs me that he looks at all of this in bed while I'm asleep next to him. You may have to really sit with him and have another talk about this. I don't know if this will lead into any problems later down the line. I mean, men do tend to look and all, but in order for a relationship to work, there needs to be something worked out. I know men who still look, yet at the same time, they seem to be in a strong marriage. I wouldn't mind my man looking at other women, but than again, I watch porn and look at other men in public too. A certain demographic of internet-dwelling types might know about The Chive: basically a Buzfeed/Upworthy/Digg-esque site aimed at fratty white bros with a penchant for video games, "funny" image macros, and barely clad babes' self-submitted photos (particularly if they're in cosplay garb).